The 10/90 Rule

assalamualaikum wbt aiyya abba.. aiyya omel,

Abah harap dan doa aiya sihat dengan mama dan duduk comel2 dengan mama.. jangan kacau2 orang te.. aiya cuda besar ya.. :-) abba tunggu aiya cini.

Abah di airport tunggu nenek dengan atuk datang kk.. mereka dari jb. atuk dengan nenek datang ada function di sini.. dan TYT pun nak jumpa.. TYT tu macam sultan laa di sabah ni, tapi kena lantik.

Mama sent me a letter from court cause she wants to take care of you. I think it is only right.. after so many months not seeing, I believe mama is the best to take care of you.. she's a lady.. you're a small girl.. she can give all the love and care to you.. abah can also do the same, but i know, mama is the best when it comes to loving you.

Im just worried that mama might bring you all over the country again.. running from everyone, from everything.. causing harm to you.. so, abah put 6 conditions that she must meet to make sure that mama really take care of you.. but this is all grown up stuff.. im sure now, being a 1 year 4 months baby, you definitely cannot understand what i write here.

Do know that abah, nenek, atuk and everyone here loves you, wherever mama take you. We can be patient for we believe that God willing, you are in good hands.

This week, I learn about the 10/90 rule.. basically, everything that happen to us, has already happen, that is the 10%.. but the way we act/react, our next action is another big 90%.. i thought of our small family saga and try to reflect back.. definitely yes.. the 10% was mama and abah no longer together, but all the things that happen afterwards were definitely another 90... big fat 90..

Maybe someday, ill tell you more. Love you.. take care of mama for us ya.